Choosing your own route is overrated. Best thing to do is hang about with some others, and fall in with them if they get stuck into something, best of all after they have put the quick draws up. Choose something on a grade you haven’t managed yet. Hanging about on a top rope on something harder than your best will give you a good feeling. Other things to remember : if you don’t fancy a route, it’s not your fault, don’t do it.